The Modern Kama Sutra

The Modern Kama Sutra is a new twist on ancient traditions, showing couples how to find ecstasy as lovers and as partners. It is perfect for creating a sizzling sex life and beautiful lifestyle. The Kama Sutra can be considered one of the first types of Sex Education for Women or Sex Education for Couples.

The original Kama Sutra was written in India by the Hindu philosopher Vatsyayana, who is believed to have lived during the 4th to 6th centuries CE (or Common Era.) It is difficult to fix the exact date of either Vatsyayana or his work, but it is well-known that this is an old, ancient text for love making, and a way of living. It was only translated into English in the 1880’s, so in terms of how we can understand it, it’s only been around for a relatively short period of time. But it has teachings that will last forever.

What makes it so important today is that it focuses on the fact that sex is all about energy. That natural flow of energy that connects us one to the other is what the Kama Sutra is built on. And that’s what makes sex delicious. Books, classes, and Sex Education DVDs all often borrow information from the Kama Sutra.

It is also based on something all couples need to know, and that is: Her Pleasure First.

The Kama Sutra teaches things that allow men to adequately – and hopefully more than that, at a higher level – pleasure the female in a way that makes her more aroused and more ready than ever for sex. Then the man gets to share that with her! That’s what makes it so special. It is a way of relating to your beloved… to your partner, to your mate, to your lover… in a way that presents an opportunity to fully connect with someone. That is really quite exciting.

It is wonderful to think that you can bring your full self into connecting with your partner. To know that you can learn to explore the full range of pleasures in which you’re minds, your emotions, your bodies, and your spirits can connect.

The ancient Kama Sutra also focuses on the force of passion and carnal desire. Passion is that energy – the sexual energy – that is life-flow energy when we unlock our sexual spirits. That’s the essence of the Kama Sutra.

 You can learn a lot about this essence of the Kama Sutra in books, or Sex Education DVDs like The Modern Kama Sutra by the Alexander Institute, hosted by renowned sex expert Dr. Patti Britton. There are also many sites that offer online Sex Education for Women, or Sex Education for Couples.

The Kama Sutra teaches us about the sexual response cycle. This means where we are, and how long it takes us to go from start to finish, or how long it takes to go from arousal to orgasm. We all have different timing, and that is one important reason to use these teachings. An especially important teaching says focus on the woman’s pleasure first, because women burn more slowly than men. Take a moment and take that in.

This is one of many people’s favorite teachings of the Kama Sutra. It reminds us that in order to be a good lover you can’t just pop in the door and say, “Hi honey, I’m home –let’s do it!”  No way!  It doesn’t work quite like that!

Remember:  there’s a build up, there’s preparation, and it’s important to “pleasure her first.”

How to Give Mind-Blowing Oral Sex

For many couples, oral sex is the primary way that the woman becomes orgasmic.  Lots of women say that penile, vaginal intercourse is just not enough to get them to their big “O,” and oral is what they need as a gateway to orgasm.

Many couples still think oral sex is only a foreplay thing that doesn’t stand on its own. But if you educate yourself, with Sex Education Tips for Women, or a Sex Education Book, you’ll find that this act of oral sex can be in and of itself the actual sexual encounter, the actual goal. All your sexual goals can be met, orally, without needing to progress to penetration.

There are many tips and techniques that will help you give and be receptive to better oral sex. It is surprising how many people fail to understand that even the most basic information can make a big difference. The first – and sometimes overlooked – basic tip has to do with grooming. It’s every woman’s choice whether or not to shave, but many men state that less hair “down there” makes it a lot easier to get to the clitoris and the rest of the vagina. The easier it is to get to, the easier it is to give pleasure. And for men, a lot of them don’t even realize that they can add an extra inch to their appearance, just by trimming back the jungle down there.

Some men are resistant to shaving or grooming their groin area. But if you rub your scalp, and then rub your neck or forehead just below the scalp, you’ll feel how you get much more sensation on the area without hair. You’ll have the exact same sensation if you groom your testicles, and around the penis. Try it, and it will seem a lot less scary to go ahead and shave, knowing how you’ll increase your own sensation of pleasure. You might even look forward to it!

Since we are addressing basics right now, let’s point out that a lot of people don’t realize food, smoking, coffee – many, many things – all affect your smell. It comes out through the pores. And the more hair you have down there, the more it holds onto the smell.  So shaving adds enhancement, in that way too, in that you will smell like yourself… and not something you recently ate or drank. This doesn’t mean you necessarily have to shave the whole thing off and be bald. Even just trimming down and controlling it will add enhancement to your sexual encounters.

Last word on grooming:  It’s important that we teach competence to both males and females – how to treat yourself and your partner in order to be a good oral lover. An interesting fact you can look up on a lot of scientific websites and medical journals is that pubic hair actually has no function anymore, because of human evolution.  Many scientists speculate that it once was a way of giving off pheromones to attract people. But now, in modern times, it actually has no practical function anymore.  So… if you are hesitant to shave for any sort of scientific reason, that shouldn’t be the case. We have changed, as biological creatures, because even though we are essentially animals, we have the ability to celebrate our bodies. Positive body modifications can be done in a celebratory spirit of loving your body.

Start with the basics. Grooming is only one small step to take toward giving Mind-Blowing Oral Sex.There are many resources for great Sex Education Tips for Women. A Sex Education Book can also be very helpful for learning how to up your pleasure with better techniques.

Explore more tips and techniques at renowned websites like Alexander Institute, a leader of great sex education online. Their books, DVDs, Video on Demand, and luxury sex toys help lovers enhance their sexuality, spice up their love life, and achieve more pleasurable, satisfying sex.